Positive Change is still Change. Change is disruption of the status quo. For us to have more loving relationships, a more fulfilling job, to achieve our highest potential, etc, the status quo cannot remain. Your routine does not stay the same. What you say and do starts to be different. Change is disruption and it can be uncomfortable. The action and process to something better can be disruptive and uncomfortable, perhaps especially for your friends and family.
What if wanting a more loving relationship leads to ending your current one? Perhaps it calls for a lot of deep and awkward conversations? Or it leads you to a lot of trying and getting disappointed?
What if getting a more fulfilling job means you must commit to taking the new job even though your parents tell you it’s a bad idea?
You’re probably rolling your eyes because these are not what-ifs. These are all inevitable and necessary.
It is a bit scary. Results are not guaranteed. Things may work out differently than you expected. Things probably will get worse before they get better.
Are you ready?